Frustration in Youth free essay sample

Frustration in youth Respected intellectual judges, elders in presence and my colleagues. I am here with a subject which is concerning us â€Å"The youth†. My words may be simple but expressive and will be leaving a great message for the parents and mentors who perform the leaders in the society. The debate is time bounded and may result leaving some stones unturned but I tried my level best and I am sure that will be useful for the society. Here comes my subject:- We come across strikes, agitation and the scene of looting, burning and destroying the public facilities and amenities almost all 15 days in a month. In Almost all scenes it is seen that a large No. of youth gathered there. We use to see or hear the Suicide by the younger and so many scene of that nature. A common word comes out from the mouth of everyone is that our youth has spoiled and is frustrated. The common thing in all above is the youth and the frustration. Which becomes our subject â€Å"Frustration in Youth† So let us know what is the frustration. â€Å"Frustration is called the failure of expectations and the feeling of defeat†. Continues increasing of this feeling results in anger which is cause of the all those incidents. Its of greater concern for the society and country that why its going on. But our parents and mentors are bounded by the times and falling short of the time , They have few seconds to blame the youth but not able to spare time to think on this subject or to peep into the back stage of these scenes. I would like to clear the picture by my own ways, studies and the little experience. The first and foremost cause is our upbringing. I am sure someone among you will blink the eyes that how it can be. But friends its there. We are brought up by the parents by showing the face of other world and with an assurance that the world is for you and the world will be doing a lot of things for you but never told that we are here to do something for the world and we have to achieve our aim and goals at our own. This has occupied full space of our mind since childhood and we grown with the same feelings. But later on when we face the fact which is something else and quite opposite of the fact which was told in the childhood we land up in the land of frustration. We were not at all ready and prepared to face this and ultimately resulting in the failure and consequences are frustration†¦Ã¢â‚¬ ¦Ã¢â‚¬ ¦. frustration †¦Ã¢â‚¬ ¦Ã¢â‚¬ ¦Ã¢â‚¬ ¦frustration†¦Ã¢â‚¬ ¦Ã¢â‚¬ ¦ and only frustration . One another silly but hammering points is there that the parents of all most all children use to appreciate the children living next door and keep doing that, continue repetition of this thing also grows in to the frustration among the children. As we know the fact about that child. This comparison takes almost all 80% of the children into frustration. Cinema is also putting burning substance in this fire and makes it the wildfire. We watch in the movies a lot of unreal things which are nowhere applicable and possible in the actual world. These are the superman and superhero qualities. We try to put ourselves in that place which is fictional and unreal too. We dream in the same manner which never come true. We follow the hero fighting and resulting landing in the jails. We must not compare our self with the hero and must watch a movie in the movie prospect. Just for entertainment In villages, smaller towns and cities it has been experienced that gap between ancient and time of today is also playing a great role. Parents want Character of Ram played in the modern world. They want us to have speed of today with the character and attitude of the 18th century. This is highly irrelevant and not feasible. We have to leave the earth if we want to touch the sky. It’s must. They must understand us and must not remind us always of the old times in which they born and lived. They must care in which world we are living. The characters and life styles change as per the present time and situations . The gap makes them angry on youth and youth get frustrated again. They must not put all their unfinished dreams on us. Because early or late this also becomes the reason. They must cop-up with the children and should consider the present time and situations. And the last but not the least reason for the frustration is the non caring Governments. So many bad things are introduced in the society which compels the youth of other community or caste feel frustrated and leads towards the untoward incidents. The best known in this category is Reservation. A well obedient and highly skilled student who tops and unable to get admission or job will naturally jump in to the frustration. Jobless youth comes first in the frustrations and are the part of crowed at agitation and the incidents of unwanted and uncommon nature (Though it has become common) There will be so many other reasons which I may not know or not touched by me but existing. But on behalf of youth I would like to put these facts in front of all parents, mentors, rule makers and governments that they must care for the youth and should spare time to consider this. Because youth is the power and power should be channelized in a proper manner to avoid the un- happenings and taking India on the top. Predictions are going on that Indian will be the third power of the world and the China and America standing first and second consequently. Why can’t we be the First?. I am sure if we are taken away and get rid of the youth frustration nobody can stop us becoming the first and having crown. Jai Hind Jai Bharat Vishal Bhardwaj BSC IInd year